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    Valerie
    Location: Bloomington, IL
    City Bloomington
    State IL
    Age 49
    How I found out about the Peppers! Internet
    About Me 4 days before Christmas-Husband of 17 years declared he wanted a divorce. I had no idea we were having problems. Husband won't discuss why he made this decision. I found he has a new woman in his life. So I am hurt, crushed, devastated, you name all of the emotions. I have no family left and no place to migrate to. He was the breadwinner. Our agreement was that I got to stay at home 10 years ago. I've moved all over the US to enhance his career. I have lost my skill set since I have not worked in 10 years and have to start over. Loosing home, income, insurance, everything. I am being forced to obtain a divorce and he will recoup in about 2 years. I am looking for other women (friends) to help me cope. Move Forward. Any advice is welcomed.
    Activities That I Enjoy Love Dogs. Love bargain hunting at places like TJ Maxx, Outlets, etc. Love travel. Very creative.
    Favorite Places That I Have Traveled Switzerland, Las Vegas, California, Raised in TN. Moved to FL, then Las Vegas, Chicago and now Bloomington, IL. Love Chicago.
    A Moment In My Life That Took My Breath Away (aside from birth of child) When my husband surprised me with a new puppy for my birthday.
    Also seeing the Swiss Alps for the 1st time.
    Type Of Work That I Do I was a marketing analyst for a major wireless company 10 years ago at corporate level.
    I haven't worked in 10 years due to agreement w/ husband.
    BAD CHOICE. He re-enforced my staying at home. I worked and still do, I just don't get paid for it.
    My Children & Ages No children - One dog left
    12 years old. A Lakeland Terrier. We lost our beautiful Airedale last August to cancer.
    What Is One POSITIVE Thing That Came Out of Your Marriage? I can't think of any at the moment. He is not the type of man who would not try to work at a marriage. His wanting a divorce has blown me away.
    I Am Currently Taking sabbatical

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