Are there children involved, Anjali? I was 31 when I left my husband for similar reasons but I had three little boys and had never worked outside of the home. It was a really tough time but also, in a weird way, a really liberating experience. It was the first time that I learned I could do it on my own and that opened the door for the belief that I could do anything if I put my mind to it. You are 28 and the whole world waits before you! Isn't that awesome?

No kids. I do feel that I am free person and I could do anything that I want. But i really feel that all my dreams are broken and i have to start all over. There is one that bothers me and i can't seem to let it go. I wonder if my ex-husband is miserable as well? Thank you for listening.

Yes, your original plan for your life is turning out different than you had envisioned, but your DREAM is still intact. You just had the wrong co-player!

It's okay to feel the sorrow and taking the time to heal. There will be a time when this loss will pass and the sadness. There will be a tomorrow when you will have a renewed interest in love, as hard as that may be to believe right now.