After over 18 years of marriage, my marriage fell apart when I discovered my husband was unfaithful and he wanted to move in with his new girlfriend. I fell apart, emotionally, and thought life was over for me. Thank God, I rediscovered the strenght that makes me me. It was hard work and sometimes still gets harder, but I have joined life again. I am now going back to school and have discovered their is life after disillusionment. Still haven't tried the dating thing, but that's mostly because the dating pool where I live isn't all that.